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A Father's Unyielding Quest: The Search for His Missing Daughter in South Korea

A father’s relentless pursuit of his daughter, who disappeared 25 years ago, turns into a national symbol of love and tragedy in South Korea.

By John YoonSource: nytimes.com1 min read
A Father's Unyielding Quest: The Search for His Missing Daughter in South Korea
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Song Gil-yong has spent decades searching for his missing daughter, Song Hye-hee, whose image lives on through banners across South Korea, symbolizing unwavering parental love yet bearing a heavy personal toll.

The blue-and-yellow banners flapping in the South Korean breeze feature a photograph of a 17-year-old girl with soft eyes and a reassuring bob haircut, her smile eternalized in time. Bold red text implores onlookers: “Please help me find Song Hye-hee!” Since her mysterious disappearance on a frosty night in 1999, her father, Song Gil-yong, turned his search for her into a lifelong mission. He traversed the nation installing new banners and replacing ones that had succumbed to the elements, his own face mapping the years with deep lines and a weathered tan. The banners, stretching the length of vehicles and hanging over busy sidewalks, endured as troops of hopeful pleas amidst hurried commuters. “He always held the belief that somewhere out there, she was waiting for him,” recounted Na Joo-bong, 67, chair of a South Korean organization dedicated to locating missing children and a close ally of Mr. Song. “His only wish was to someday hold her hand again.”As these banners immortalized Mr. Song’s unwavering dedication, they also narrated a painful personal saga. The relentless search took its toll—his wife succumbed to despair, his bond with his eldest daughter weakened, and his finances dwindled with every new banner printed and every mile logged in his aging white truck. Mr. Song's enduring hope is a touching tribute to the complexities of loss and parental love, echoing through the streets of South Korea as a haunting reminder of a daughter who remains unaccounted for.

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