On Valentine's Day, Joy Kalekye, a 19-year-old student, discovered through a friend that a video of her had been shared online without her knowledge. The video showed a man approaching her in Nairobi, expressing admiration without clear consent. This incident is part of a larger disturbing trend where men in Kenya and Ghana engage in non-consensual filming of women, resulting in significant online harassment and ridicule. Activists in these countries have raised their voices against this practice, calling for justice against the perpetrators and urging society to shift towards holding violators accountable rather than blaming victims. Kalekye, along with others, have faced immense backlash online, while their experiences reflect broader issues of victimization and misogyny. As calls for legal action escalate, the narrative around consent and the responsibilities of content creators in the digital age is brought sharply into focus.